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Emelie Westerlund

Here Miss Bellasis' secretary has transcribed just a few of the queries received at Verbena House along with Miss Bellasis' replies.  Questions such as those listed below will surely be of interest to many of you.  If you have a query please do not hesitate to contact Miss Bellasis, stating whether you mind having your letter published if we feel the answer will aid the nipple tassel buying public;  names can be changed if necessary.

How does ones attach the pasties?

What size are your pasties?

How does one get them moving?

Nipple tassels or pasties - a definition

How ought they be cleaned?

What is meant by animal friendly 'leather'?

What is the inspiration and history behind Miss Bellasis?

 

How does one attach them?

Dear Miss Bellasis

I would like to purchase a pair of your delightful nipple tassels and wish to know how one attaches them.  I have heard it is possible to use eyelash glue or spirit gum.  Please advise.

Yours Sincerely
Delphine Dubois (Miss)

 

 

Dear Miss Dubois

It is true that one can use spirit gum or other 'body' glue but we recommend the use of double sided tape.  One can use one of the many tapes on the market designed for keeping clothing in place or, as tests at Verbena House have revealed, ordinary double sided 'sticky tape' will do the trick if you are not going to be moving terribly vigourously.

Always ensure that that your skin is clean, dry and grease free before attaching pastie to skin - if not the pastie is unlikely to adhere properly.  The importance of this cannot be stressed enough, one wouldn't like to be blamed for an untimely incident, accident or social faux pas.

All pairs of nipple tassels and pasties come beautifully packaged with enough tape for several "applications".  Should you have any further questions please do not hesitate to contact me.

Yours Sincerely
Miss Bellasis

 

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What size are they?

Dear Miss Bellasis

I would like to know the size of your nipple tassels and merkins and whether it would be possible to have them made to a different size.

Yours Sincerely
Ava Satana

 

Dear Ava Satana

Pastie diameters are as follows:

Ribbon: 5 ½ cm

Satin: round - 5½ cm; square - 4½ cm; diamond shaped - 5 cm; heart shaped - 5 ½ cm, across widest part

Sequin: 5 cm, across the widest point

Vintage: as for Satin or Ribbon depending on the style

Merkins are approximately 6cm across the widest part.

Traditionally the size of the pastie is relative to the size of the aureole, being the bare minimum able to circumnavigate nudity laws.  The size is not necessarily relative to bust size, but we do believe that everyone should be able to wear Miss Bellasis nipple tassels with confidence and so we can make other sizes if necessary.

If you have any particular needs please do not hesitate to contact me.

Yours Sincerely
Miss Bellasis

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How does one get them moving?

Dear Miss Bellasis

Our family has fallen on hard times and my mother has suggested that I take to the stage in order to save the family from financial embarassment.  I have always secretly desired the life of a burlesque star and feel that an act involving the twirling of nipple tassels would be a suitable one, taking into account my primary assets and athletic bent.  I found your wonderful site while searching for the accoutrements for my act and would like a few tips on twirling technique.

Yours Sincerely
Cordelia Worthington

 

Dear Miss Worthington

I was discussing just this matter over a gin and tonic the other day.  The answer, my dear, is practice, practice, practice and yet more practice - but following are a few helpful hints.  Perhaps the easiest movement to start with is to put your hands behind your head and bob up and down, this should get both the tassels rotating inwards.  This excellent first exercise will enable you to build up your confidence, though it must be admitted that bouncing up and down in this manner rather brings to mind the 100 metre dash on school sports day than the seductive charm of a seasoned twirler.  To get them twirling the same way a little shoulder technique is needed.  Bend forward, place your palms on your knees then rub up them and down your thighs, moving your hands alternately, slowly standing up as you do so. With practice this should really get 'things' going. The rest is up to you. Very best of luck with your career.

Yours Sincerely
Miss Bellasis


This additional advice comes from a delightful girl whom Miss Bellasis met in the Famous Spiegeltent, during the 2005 Brighton Festival.

My name is Hayley, I bought a pair of heart shaped nipple tassels from you after La Clique on Friday night.  I tried them on this morning and they're brilliant, thankyou very much!
I've just taken a look at your website and I thought I'd mention another technique for moving the tassels. I find that raising either your left arm or right arm moves them - it made them rotate in opposite directions.

All the best
Hayley


Always ready to take advice, there has been much practising here at Verbena House of the technique Hayley suggests and we can indeed report that it works rather well;  furthermore it looks somewhat more alluring than the '100 metre dash' effect as described above.  Thank you very much Hayley and the very best of luck with your future twirling. 

 

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Nipple tassels or pasties, semantics or pedantry?

Dear Miss Bellasis

I am rather confused by the terms used to describe your merchandise.  What is the difference between 'nipple tassels' and 'pasties'?  Does one pronounce pasties as though one discussing the delicious comestibles from our fair Cornwall or rather as when describing a particularly pallid complexion?

Yours Sincerely
Henrietta Fairfield (Miss)

 

 

Dear Miss Fairfield

There was a time too when I was confused about the terms.  However whilst working one day I was listening, as usual, to the wonderfully informative BBC Radio 4 and had the fortune to catch just such a debate on air; this made the situation at least partly clearer.  Pasties, it transpired, was the term used in America to refer to the cone part alone - within the burlesque scene a lady may have several pairs of pasties but only one pair of tassels, which would then be attached to any one of the pairs of 'pasties'. 'Pasties' now appears to be the generic term in the US for what we, over this side of the pond, term nipple tassels.  Miss Bellasis uses the terms to distinguish between those pairs that have tassels, such as Hesther, and those that do not, such as Peggy; or when talking specifically about the cone part alone. Pasties, for the record, is pronounced as in paste, not as in pasta.  I do hope this has been of help.

Yours Sincerely
Miss Bellasis

 

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How ought they be cleaned?

Dear Miss Bellasis

After a rather sordid night out I seem to have acquired a stain on my gorgeous Miss Bellasis nipple tassels, what can I do?

Yours sincerely
Lizzie Tawdry

 

Dear Miss Tawdry

First and foremost we do suggest that you try to avoid soiling your Miss Bellasis nipple tassels or pasties and also that if the stain is one such as red wine or lipstick then all will probably be lost and you might just have to purchase a new pair. Secondly we offer the following as guidance only with a disclaimer to the effect of that, although we have carried out various tests at Verbena House, we cannot be held responsible for any damage or worsening of the stain.

With ribbon pasties Velvet gentle hand washing as you would your fine lingerie or stockings might help; do not leave to soak and do not scrub. Gently press with a clean towel then dry flat in a warm place.

For those made of ribbon with tassels and those in the satin collection we recommend gently dabbing stains with a dry cleaning fluid type stain remover - follow the instructions on the bottle, but please note that you should avoid getting the fluid on beads, dice, diamante or other trims.

For the animal friendly 'leather' backings of the satin and sequin pasties, the following advice may help. If you have the grey or cream backing on your pasties, stains might respond to gentle rubbing with dry cleaning fluid or alcohol. The red backing might respond to careful cleaning with baby oil though this might also affect how well they will stick in future. DO NOT use dry cleaning fluid or similar on the red backing as this will damage the surface. Please note that we do suggest that you use tape as mentioned above in How Does One Attach Them ; this will avoid the inevitable residue of adhesives.

We suggest you do not attempt to clean any from the Vintage and Limited Edition Collection, save treating the back as above, but you are welcome to contact us with any query you might have about care for these.

Please do not hesitate to contact us should you require any further help.

Yours sincerely
Miss Bellasis

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What is meant by animal friendly 'leather'?

Dear Miss Bellasis

I notice that you use the term 'animal friendly leather' when describing the backings of your pasties.  Just what do you mean? How can leather be animal friendly?

Yours sincerely
Lady Virginia Fanning

 

Dear Lady Fanning

You will see I hope, that we place 'leather' in inverted commas. We use an imitation leather of the highest quality - the same as that used by many reputable vegetarian and vegan shoemakers and clothiers as well as sportswear manufacturers.  We do not use anything of animal origin, anything that contains anything of animal origin or anything that has been tested on animals.  Please visit the links page and follow the link to the Vegan Society and Viva! for a wealth of interesting information on this subject.

Yours sincerely
Miss Bellasis

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What is the inspiration and history behind Miss Bellasis?

Dear Miss Bellasis

I came across your site whilst walking briskly on the paths on the World Wide Web.  I was surprised to find a lady such as yourself engaged in such a profession as this and I am interested to discover how you embarked upon your career.  I would also like to learn a little about the inspiration behind your 'craft'.

Yours Sincerely
Edna Welthorpe (Mrs)

 

Dear Mrs Welthorpe

My secretary had previously suggested that visitors to this site might be interested in learning more about Miss Bellasis; the receipt of your letter coupled with cancellation of a whist evening led me to write the following.

At the end of the last century a good friend effected a divorce, decamped to London and blossomed into what can only be described as, well, does one need more words when one talks of the blossoming of a lady?  Some red sequin nipple tassels seemed the only appropriate gift and so Miss Bellasis, as such, was born.  This simple act led to the creation of more pairs and the interest of fine sales establishments and thus was Miss Bellasis' debut into society.  From then on all sorts of design possibilities started to come to mind drawing inspiration from a period spent working in the world of extraordinarily indulgent chocolate cake creation, from historical figures and stories, naughty Victoriana, Golden Age of Hollywood glamour and dear grandparents' reminiscences of mid-century high living in London and on the French Riviera.

The early days were hard, balancing the ladylike occupation of needlework with the cruel trenches of British archaeology but spells within the libraries and collections of museums and the warm and hallowed halls of county record offices ameliorated these difficult times whilst providing continuing historical inspiration.  Ah, how precious those times, surrounded by the musty smell of documents, the soft rustling of well lined tweed, the subdued coughs of fellow researchers, the triumphant murmur that accompanies the falling into place of another piece of the jigsaw…but I digress….All these pursuits were noble indeed but temptation proved too great when an old acquaintance offered the opportunity for the division of time between dear old Blighty and our continental neighbour France; Miss Bellasis decamped from former occupations and became the creatrice she is today.  

As noted on the About page but worth reiterating again, "inspiration for nipple tassels and pasties still comes from many sources, be it a tempting Chelsea Bun in a baker's window, the hundredth anniversary of the birth of Greta Garbo, Tatlin's Monument to the Third International or tempestuous rain seen through a window made of fine claret bottles. Further inspiration comes from the belief that every lady should have a pair of nipple tassels or pasties tucked away in a top draw or displayed proudly on a dressing table close at hand for those moments when they might just be needed".

We do hope this has answered your query.

Yours sincerely
Miss Bellasis

Since writing this letter Miss Bellasis has moved to the Åland Islands, a rather interesting and beautiful set of islands in the Baltic Sea somewhere near the 60th parallel, where she is able to indulge in both creative and historical interests.

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